Online therapy · Illinois & Michigan

A grounded, affirming space for identity, intimacy, trauma, and grief.

I’m E.t. Townsend (they/them), a nonbinary Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Sex Therapist. I work with people exploring gender, sexuality, kink, and relational complexity and with the grief and trauma that often travel alongside.

Sessions

Online only

Fee

$150

Insurance

In network

You might be here because

You're stuck in cycles of overwhelm, or questioning the stories you've been told about who you are.

Maybe you long for connection and struggle with vulnerability, trust, or belonging. Maybe grief has settled into your body. Whatever brought you here, your experiences matter and you don’t have to navigate this alone.

Nothing about you needs translating

Queer, trans, kinky, polyamorous, disabled, or all of the above you won't spend sessions educating your therapist.

Your nervous system sets the pace

Polyvagal-informed and somatic work means we build capacity before we go toward what's hard.

Care should be reachable

Insurance in network, a sliding scale, superbills, and early-morning slots before the workday.

Services

Ways we can work together

Sex Therapy & Intimacy

AASECT-certified sex therapy for desire, pleasure, shame, and sexual difficulty.

Gender Identity & Trans-Affirming Care

Exploration, affirming support, and assessments or letters for medical and social transition.

Trauma & Somatic Therapy

Body-based, Polyvagal-informed work for trauma that words alone can't reach.

Grief & Loss

Space for grief that doesn't follow stages — including the losses nobody acknowledged.

Chronic Illness & Chronic Pain

Support for living in a body that hurts, fluctuates, or gets dismissed by providers.

Relationships, Polyamory & ENM

Couples, polycule, and relational work with no assumption that monogamy is the goal.

Video introduction

Hear how I work

Choosing a therapist is mostly a gut decision. My short introduction video lives on my verified Psychology Today profile  press play to hear my voice and see whether it feels like somewhere you could exhale.

Also listed on AASECT, TherapyDen, and TherapyFinder.

Let's connect

Ready for a free 15-minute consultation?

No pressure and no script just a short conversation about what you’re looking for and whether we’re a good fit.